No Doesn’t Really Mean No

Here is an email response from a recruiter who has just been told that the friend has changed her mind about joining Mary Kay and won’t make any big decisions without praying and getting input from her husband. She says she’ll let the recruiter know if she ever changes her mind about Mary Kay:

No hard feelings whatesoever! This is an opportunity that could change your life, but I do understand that it is something that you should speak to your husband about and God about before you start. Why don’t you think about this once you have prayed… if money is the issue, your debut will cover it and if it does not, I will personally purchase your kit! I am so confident that I won’t need to though.

Also, if it is the timing….why not give it a shot!? You have nothing to lose! If it is because you may be nervous about beginning your own business… I am here for you to train, encourage, and help you in any way you may need. I believe you are awesome and would be so incredible as a consultant, but how will we ever know unless you give it a shot! There are many people who are hesitant about beginning this business, but that is a great thing because that means that you are smart and want to make good decisions for your life. It would be odd if you were to just sign up before even hearing about the business!

I am not offended or hurt at all if you don’t join simply because I would never want you to do anything you don’t want to do! My dream is my dream, and I will make it happen. I would love to talk soon and clear up any questions you may have about Mary Kay or concerns you and Chris may have. Would you still like to meet with me and my sales director on Thursday night for some makeup time? Take care!

9 COMMENTS

  1. Let me see, Ms. Eno Inoyo is practising for saying no. And there’s at least one SD who doesn’t want to be involved with your MLM. So I guess I’m in good company with saying NO.

  2. Recruiter, if you’re so sure this opportunity is for me, and you want to buy my starter kit – how bout you buy my first inventory package too?

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  3. “Would you still like to meet with me and my sales director on Thursday night for some makeup time?”

    No red flags there! It is not a stretch to imagine this is an ex boyfriend, refusing to accept a “no” to getting back together…

    “Would you still like to meet with me at my place on Thursday night for some make-up sex?”

    Same gross, desperate, manipulative vibe.

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  4. No doubt the recruiter will continue bombing her with texts and emails to convince her to join. And mentions a meeting with the director?! BLOCK her! Common tactic for MLMs

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  5. Wow … reminds me of some guys I have met in bars. “I am not offended or hurt at all if you don’t have sex with me, because I would never want you to do anything you don’t want to do …but how about you come to my place for a bit and we’ll see if I can change your mind.”

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  6. Overhearing mom the SD at her “training sessions”

    “remember ladies, no doesn’t mean no. it means they need more information.”

    Son at court for a rape bail hearing “but mom you said no doesn’t mean no! and what do you mean you don’t have any money for bail??”

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  7. I have tried password recovery a few times recently and I don’t get the email. Can somebody who has contact with me help? 😬😬

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