You Are Such Loosers
A note from an angry Mary Kay customer to Pink Truth members:
To whom it may concern…..
What has this world come to?? What are you thinking??? You all are bitter, bitter women that can’t find anything else better to do with your time. Get a life!!!
I am completely blown away that you would start a website like this!!! Do you think that we are all stupid, that we can’t think for ourselves??? I can not believe that you all started your Mary Kay businesses and put yourselves in a financial hole!!! That is too funny!!! Whats even better is that you blame your failure onto Mary Kay Inc.??? Did they put a gun to your heads???? Tell me something…. are you gutting Avon?? What other MLM companies did you fail at that you are gutting??
The hate and discontent in this website is way out of control!!! You ladies really need to get a life and allow us to find out if the Mary Kay world is for us. I get it, it wasn’t for you…. do I care??? No!!! Everyone has different situations and life stories…. it doesn’t mean that my story will turn out like yours!!! You know, if I was able to have a chance to stay at home with my children and still make the same wages that I would at a 9-5 job or 3-11 or 7-4 job, damn straight I would!!! My children mean the world to me and I would do what ever I had to, to make sure that they weren’t raised by someone else!!! To be able to give them a life that the NSD’s have would be amazing!!! Can you give your children and family that same life???
Every single one of you had the same chance to succeed!!! Instead you gave up!!! And that is sad….. stop blaming someone else and blame yourselves for being such loosers!!! Because that is what you are!!! Bitter, hateful, sad, sad women!!! I am so thankful that I don’t know who any of you are, because I would be ashamed to say that I did know you!!!
You think you are saving us all from a terrible, terrible fate!!! Well guess what….. all you have done is made yourselves look stupid!!! That is even funnier!!! Now the whole world knows about it!!! You all had a chance to make a difference in your lives…. what you did with it…. you threw away that chance and all you have done is made yourselves look like fools!!! Congrats!!!
With the economy and job market the way that it is right now…. I will try anything to be able to put food on the table and clothes on our backs!!!! BUT!!! I will do it in a manner that is suitable for me and my family and not financially damning!!! Dumping $4800 into a business that your not sure is going to work for you….. like I said…. fools!!!
All of you really need to grow up and shut up!!! Your opinions are just that…. YOURS!!! I don’t want to hear it, neither does the next woman. We all have two legs, you need to let us stand on them. Stop bashing Mary Kay!!! They did nothing to you, you did it to yourself!!! I really feel sorry for you and the others that you have sucked in!!! It’s pathetic that you would go this far!!!
Just to clarify…… I’m not even a consultant. I’ve used the product for 15 years, but never really looked into the company itself….. but because I have stumbled onto your website, I am more intrigued now to prove you all wrong. When I read things on your website, all I see is bitter, sad, probably lonely women that are full of hate. Trying to blame someone else for their failures. Well sweeties…. buck up!!! Life isn’t fair, and the only ones to blame is yourselves!!!
All I can see is that someone out there hurt you and you are just wanting to get revenge on them. I see that as very, very sad. Making it your lifes quest to crush a company because you failed??? Because 1 person promised you something and it didn’t happen like you wanted it to. If it were me, I’d be looking for something else to occupy my time, because in the end you are going to only destroy one person….. you. Good luck with your bashing party…. hopefully one day you will realize that you are only hurting yourself and your followers. That just tells me that you don’t have a conscience.
I will do one thing for you…… I will pray for you….. pray that you will see the damage that you are doing and causing terrible hate and discontent in everything and everyone around you. That is why there is so much hate in the world, it’s because of people like you that have a score to settle and don’t give others the chance to test the waters.
From what I understand, Mary Kay Inc. has been in business for 55+ years??? They must be doing something right. If I am able to get just a small piece of that pie to make a better life for my family….. it’s worth the try.
So I thank you…. I am looking forward to proving you and your haters wrong. It’s going to be a fun ride!!!
Leaving aside all the other drivel here because I don’t have time and DA will do it better, no one else is going to be able to use any punctuation marks for the next two weeks because today’s commenter used up the quota!
And, Tracy, when the heck are we getting those guardrails? Somebody is going to seriously injure themselves will all the stumbling going on around here.
“Not a consultant!!!” my foot!!! (I found an emergency box of exclamation points in the bottom of the freezer.)
“I am completely blown away that you would start a website like this!!! Do you think that we are all stupid, that we can’t think for ourselves???”
Given the fact that your screed is composed of regurgitated MK thought-cancelling cliches, ad hominem arguments we’ve heard a million times before, and hate-prayng at us, I think YOU’RE stupid. Most of the others in MLM aren’t stupid, just misled.
“To be able to give them a life that the NSD’s have would be amazing!!! Can you give your children and family that same life???”
Rampant divorce, crushing debt that leads you to bankruptcy (and lying on the paperwork), felonies, lawsuits, living the dream on your downline’s credit cards until they can’t pay their own bills in order to keep your position? Who wouldn’t want that for their kids!!! Sign me up!!!
And as to the “MK has been around for 60 years, therefore they must be good %%%” argument (ran out of exclamation points so I’m having to improvise here) the Mafia has been around for longer than that and no one’s trying to claim it’s a good thing.
Nitwit.
“Every single one of you had the same chance to succeed!!!”
Yep. 0.4%. If you randomly select 1000 MLM participants and put them in a room, you will find that, on average, only 4 of them are not losing money. You have do this over and over again to snag someone making any real money. But the losses in every room are significant.
Every MLM downline is losing money. There is no way around this. No amount of effort can change this outcome. These loss rates are built into these pay-to-play endless-chain recruiting schemes, and provide the up-line cash flow. This is where the money comes from, since so little product is ever sold to outside customers.
OP, you are defending a scam.
It’s Friday. Time for another praying stumbler.
The time she spent typing this up could have been used to do a practice interview with her consultant.
So she’s not a consultant but totally would give up her real job to stay at home with her kids doing an MLM. So why hasn’t she?
Has anyone here seen videos of Victor Borge doing “Phonetic Punctuation”? This writer’s letter is much more amusing if you imagine her 4711 exclamation points and question marks being articulated by Borge.
I had to look that one up on YouTube since it has been so long since I’ve seen it. Borge was a genius in so many ways.
Perfect! I’m going to imagine Borge doing that to every Friday critic doing that from now on.
🤣🤣🤣
It’s here:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TIf3IfHCoiE&ab_channel=MusicalComedy
Oh, dear… Bless your heart!
We have a saying in my family, “We don’t hide our crazy. We pour it a drink and sit it on the porch.”
I think it’s time someone poured the poster a drink while we get the guardrails and flashing lights up.
>> I get it, it wasn’t for you…. do I care??? No!!! >>
Well you seem to. In fact you seem pretty butt hurt defensive with all your exclamation marks. Also, no way you are not a consultant.
The writer is so smart and intelligent that we should pattern our lives after her. A non NSD. ROFL! A non consultant who thinks she is an expert. Don’t quit your day job.
“That is why there is so much hate in the world, it’s because of people like you that have a score to settle and don’t give others the chance to test the waters.”
How on earth does this site prevent anyone from testing the waters? No one here has any power over anyone else. No one here can stop you from becoming as deeply involved in Mary Kay as you wish.
“You know, if I was able to have a chance to stay at home with my children and still make the same wages that I would at a 9-5 job or 3-11 or 7-4 job, damn straight I would!!! ”
But can you really make the same wages?
If you ever consider becoming a consultant, please, PLEASE, demand to see your recruiter’s tax returns (Schedule C) first, for as many years as they’ve been a consultant. Just as you don’t blindly trust this forum, please don’t blindly trust Mary Kay either. Force them to prove that this is a viable way to make a living.
“They must be doing something right. If I am able to get just a small piece of that pie to make a better life for my family….. it’s worth the try. So I thank you…. I am looking forward to proving you and your haters wrong. It’s going to be a fun ride!!!”
I hope you’ll reconsider, because I believe you’re making a mistake. But as I already said, no one here has the power to stop you.
If you manage to prove us wrong, come back with the actual numbers and rub it in, by all means. Show us 1) how much money your Mary Kay efforts bring in, 2) how much Mary Kay costs you in terms of product, training, and other expenses, and 3) how many total hours you worked, including time spent placing orders, cold calling, etc., not just time at house parties. These are the only criteria by which we can see whether you succeeded or not.
So far, not one critic of this website has ever come back with actual numbers to prove that the ladies here are wrong. Not one. Why do you suppose that is?
Oh goodness another pointless screed!🤦♀️ Cut into two parts due to the sheer amount of word salad. And I see Priceless Chels is having another BOGO on punctuation points.
To whom it may concern…..
Hello.
What has this world come to??
Thank you for an early morning Bowie earworm.
What are you thinking???
Lots of things, mainly how silly your arguments are on first reading.
You all are bitter, bitter women that can’t find anything else better to do with your time. Get a life!!!
So, your are trying to downplay a valid emotion which I believe none of us are actually displaying at this time. Being bitter, angry, sad are normal. What isn’t is having some-one else demanding that (general) you regulate your emotions to suit their needs.
I have a life, my eldest graduated this week and I spent a few days with her and her siblings. My plans for the next few days do not involve trying to met some-one else’s goal so their life is better at the expense of mine.
I am completely blown away that you would start a website like this!!!
Why? Do you feel the same about websites that expose the underhand dealings of Amazon, Wal*Mart, Disney etc. ? Or is it only Mary Kay Wagner Rogers Eckman Weaver Louis Miller Hallenbeck Ash’s company you do not want the reputation to be besmirched?
Do you think that we are all stupid, that we can’t think for ourselves???
No but MK has spent nearly sixty years polishing up the scripts to a Polished Pink Perfection which flatter the both the subject and the object. They blind you with their undeserved bling.
I can not believe that you all started your Mary Kay businesses and put yourselves in a financial hole!!! That is too funny!!!
Wow!!🙍♀️ How unempathetic. You will make a good MK drone for sure. 🧟♀️One without any money and a lot of unsold inventory and possibly a ruined marriage.
Whats (sic) even better is that you blame your failure onto Mary Kay Inc.??? Did they put a gun to your heads????
No, but they are very skilled at manipulation. The Tippy Tops have honed their skills for decades and passed down their tips and tricks, like refusing to sign you up as a consultant until you place your starter kit order.
Tell me something…. are you gutting Avon?? What other MLM companies did you fail at that you are gutting??
We are not ‘gutting’ any company and a quick Google search shows plenty of anti MLM sites by both company name and in general.
The hate and discontent in this website is way out of control!!!
There’s little to no hate here. Compassion and the desire to help is upmost in our minds.
You ladies really need to get a life and allow us to find out if the Mary Kay world is for us.
Why would I not tell a friend or some-one I know if they are making a mistake which could cost them money, integrity or time? If I knew the car-seat they were planning to buy has been recalled, do I not inform them? MK is the same.
I get it, it wasn’t for you…. do I care??? No!!!
Just dripping with compassion and empathy aren’t you? I would not be your friend. You would be exhausting.
Everyone has different situations and life stories…. it doesn’t mean that my story will turn out like yours!!!
Given that most of the former MK contributors were directors and higher, no I don’t think your story will. You’ll almost certainly remain on the DIQ wheel for a very long time, producing a never-ending stream of money and recruits for the benefit of some-one else.
You know, if I was able to have a chance to stay at home with my children and still make the same wages that I would at a 9-5 job or 3-11 or 7-4 job, damn straight I would!!! My children mean the world to me and I would do what ever I had to, to make sure that they weren’t raised by someone else!!!
There are plenty of work from home jobs that would make a better, more consistent income than Mary Kay.
To be able to give them a life that the NSD’s have would be amazing!!! Can you give your children and family that same life???
NSD’s are not what I consider to have a balanced work/home life. Certainly not in the early stages of their “careers”. But never you mind, since the chances of you reaching that point are almost zero.
Every single one of you had the same chance to succeed!!!
Personally I was never in MK. But that doesn’t mean that I am unable to have an opinion on the practices of both the company and its’ consultants at all levels.
Instead you gave up!!! And that is sad….. stop blaming someone else and blame yourselves for being such loosers (sic)!!!
I don’t blame any of these brave women and men who see the faults and leave. That’s being brave.
Because that is what you are!!! Bitter, hateful, sad, sad women!!!
🛑 stop policing other people’s emotions. 🛑
I am so thankful that I don’t know who any of you are, because I would be ashamed to say that I did know you!!!
Don’t worry, we probably wouldn’t want to know you but that wouldn’t stop us helping you either.
You think you are saving us all from a terrible, terrible fate!!! Well guess what….. all you have done is made yourselves look stupid!!! That is even funnier!!! Now the whole world knows about it!!!
This is typical of a MKbot. Every so often we get a post about how wonderful and kind and mature those ladies are and then we get this diatribe.
You all had a chance to make a difference in your lives…. what you did with it…. you threw away that chance and all you have done is made yourselves look like fools!!! Congrats!!!
You, madam, are nuts.
“I can not believe that you all started your Mary Kay businesses and put yourselves in a financial hole!!! That is too funny!!!”: I didn’t put myself into a financial hole. I kept records of every dollar in and every dollar out. I did not purchase inventory. I got out because the amount of time I spent on it wasn’t worth the amount of money I made.
“Did they put a gun to your heads????”: I wish all you huns would quit using this one. Obviously, no one threatened me with physical violence. However, the woman who recruited me gained some measure of trust with me and then tried hard to push me into purchasing inventory. So yeah, it wasn’t armed robbery. It was more like a confidence game.
“You know, if I was able to have a chance to stay at home with my children and still make the same wages that I would at a 9-5 job or 3-11 or 7-4 job, damn straight I would!!!”: then why aren’t you a consultant?
“My children mean the world to me and I would do what ever I had to, to make sure that they weren’t raised by someone else!!!”: Mom-shaming. Nice.
“With the economy and job market the way that it is right now…. I will try anything to be able to put food on the table and clothes on our backs!!!!”: So…who is going to be buying the product? Your customer base is facing those same challenges, and they aren’t going to want to spend money on overpriced makeup.
“I’m not even a consultant”
I believe it. I think it’s a Sales Director. Or higher.
Director style punctuation fo’ sho
Part two.. The Revenge of the Exclamation Point!
With the economy and job market the way that it is right now…. I will try anything to be able to put food on the table and clothes on our backs!!!! BUT!!! I will do it in a manner that is suitable for me and my family and not financially damning!!!
And yet you are appearing to be planning to join Mary Kay Wagner Rogers Eckman Weaver Louis Miller Hallenbeck Ash’s company.
Dumping $4800 into a business that your not sure is going to work for you….. like I said…. fools!!!
I hope for your sake and your family’s that you don’t spend that amount of money on the fauxotunity that is Mary Kay Wagner Rogers Eckman Weaver Louis Miller Hallenbeck Ash’s company.
All of you really need to grow up and shut up!!!
Yet again another example of the negativity in MK. For a group of women empowering women they hate to hear other women’s thoughts.
Your opinions are just that…. YOURS!!! I don’t want to hear it, neither does the next woman.
I didn’t need to hear yours either, but here we are.
We all have two legs, you need to let us stand on them.
That’s so very I am 14 and this is deep material.
Stop bashing Mary Kay!!!
I am not bashing MK, I am using their words and the words and deeds of their directors to show how objectively bad the company is.
They did nothing to you, you did it to yourself!!! I really feel sorry for you and the others that you have sucked in!!! It’s pathetic that you would go this far!!!
The only thing that sucks is Mary Kay and the companies like it which prey on vulnerable people to make large profits at their expense.
Just to clarify…… I’m not even a consultant.
Madam, you are a liar. If you are not a consultant now, you have been in the past. Your tone and phrases are straight from the How to Defend Our Goddess Mary Kay and Her Eternally Good Company . There is no original thought in this mess at all.
I’ve used the product for 15 years, but never really looked into the company itself…..
Bull💩. If you were a customer for fifteen years, you would have been approached on a regular basis for over fourteen of them. You make a more consistent stream of commission for your consultant if she or he signs you up under them.
but because I have stumbled onto your website, I am more intrigued now to prove you all wrong.
Please do. Though the cost in money, time, dignity and your soul might not be worth it.
When I read things on your website, all I see is bitter, sad, probably lonely women that are full of hate.
The only bitter, sad, lonely and hateful woman you see is the one reflected in your mirror every day. We here are none of those things.
Trying to blame someone else for their failures. Well sweeties…. buck up!!! Life isn’t fair, and the only ones to blame is yourselves!!!
Did I mention how unempathetic this woman is??
All I can see is that someone out there hurt you and you are just wanting to get revenge on them. I see that as very, very sad.
I don’t, We are trying to educate and support people who fall victims to a polished performance. If we can help one person regain some of their money and all of their integrity by showing them how they have been misled, we are doing good in the world.
Making it your lifes (sic) quest to crush a company because you failed??? Because 1 person promised you something and it didn’t happen like you wanted it to.
Except you and I and the rest of the commentariat know that isn’t what we are here for. This is the promise from MK, executive pay for part time work. This is the reality
https://www.marykay.ca/en-ca/pages/earnings-representation
Mary Kay’s own figures.
If it were me, I’d be looking for something else to occupy my time, because in the end you are going to only destroy one person….. you.
If I were you, I’d be looking for an alternative to Mary Kay. Because that is guaranteed to damage (general) you.
Good luck with your bashing party…. hopefully one day you will realize that you are only hurting yourself and your followers. That just tells me that you don’t have a conscience.
I have a conscience, it is what lead me to become anti-MLM and oppose the extremes in both religion and politics. To fight for better consumer rights among other things.
I will do one thing for you…… I will pray for you…..
please don’t, your prayers are meaningless. Given the chance you’d try to prey on me in an instant.
pray that you will see the damage that you are doing and causing terrible hate and discontent in everything and everyone around you.
Tracy, I didn’t know that you were so powerful.
That is why there is so much hate in the world, it’s because of people like you that have a score to settle and don’t give others the chance to test the waters.
We are not stopping (general) you ‘testing the water’, we are pointing out that rip-tides exist and show some-one how to exit them safely.
From what I understand, Mary Kay Inc. has been in business for 55+ years??? They must be doing something right.
Or, they could be so very skilled at making it appear that way so that any voices against them are silenced or ignored until some-one is in too deep that they are unable to escape.
If I am able to get just a small piece of that pie to make a better life for my family….. it’s worth the try.
Good luck storming the castle. The dragon’s hoard has been well picked over in the past sixty years. I hope that you don’t trample down the serfs as you plunder the kingdom.
So I thank you…. I am looking forward to proving you and your haters wrong. It’s going to be a fun ride!!!
it certainly will be as you fruitless try to sell your inventory that your director “persuaded” you to buy, as you burn through your family and friends. As you hamster wheel through DIQ after DIQ enriching your up-lines while impoverishing your family coffers. When women actively avoid your red jacket with your name badge cutely placed upside down. When you keep getting voted out of the PTA, HOA, church committees.
But you already know this because you, madam, are too entrenched in the Mk Fog to be anything other than highly offended by anyone not instantly agreeing with you. You won’t read a word any of us write in case we trigger that little niggle in the back of your mind that is trying and failing to tell you to take a step back and look objectively at what you are doing to your children, your husband and the rest of the world.
Even while standing on her own two legs, she managed to stumble onto this site.
Why do people get so bothered by Pink Truth if their truth is so much better than what is portrayed here?
Tsk. Tsk. Tsk. Tsk. Tsk. 🤦🏼♀️ SMH. This diatribe reminds me of something Mark Twain said years ago: “It’s better to keep your mouth shut and be thought a fool than to open it and remove all doubt.”
Let me preface this by saying I don’t have kids – but this is the line that got me
“I would do what ever I had to, to make sure that they weren’t raised by someone else!!!”
As a kid that had parents who worked full time jobs, and was a latch key kid, (the whole neighborhood actually were latch key kids.). This mindset kills me.
My parents still raised me, just because occasionally I may had to stay with a neighbor or had a babysitter, or went to my parents best friends houses because my mom & dad both had to work overtime doesn’t mean my parents didn’t care or didn’t raise me
Quite honestly it was good that some other non family members had influence over my formative years, my parents don’t know everything and I was exposed to a lot of different lifestyles and have a wide variety of friends that I have known since being a toddler.
Also for the record a lot of the kids who had parents who worked and had other raise them as you believe happens when parents work, in my experience are a lot more tolerant of other ideas and lifestyles than those who haven’t been.
Good point. “It takes a village to raise a child” and all that.
Add me to the bandwagon. As long as the childcare place is safe, clean, and well-staffed, what’s wrong with kids getting to meet other kids and adults? They get to play with different toys than they have at home. They get unstructured time, which is so important for developing minds. The providers aren’t “raising” your children; they’re just supervising them for part of a day and at the end of the day they come home to you.
My mother was a SAHM until I went into grade school and mostly kept me under her very weighty thumb. I was never allowed to be around other kids unless they were family. When I went to kindergarden, I had no idea how to even be around strangers. I had zero backbone and found it totally unfair that other kids got away with stuff at school that would earn me a draconian punishment at home. Hell, one time I got in trouble with the teacher for eating a granola bar during class, which I was only eating because my mother would raise the roof if I didn’t eat the snacks she packed for me.
I think that if I’d been around normal people at an earlier age I’d have been better off and better able to handle the real world. It sucked to be foofed-up in the head at 5.
Gen Xer here. We were all latch-key kids at some point. The neighbors kept an eye on us to make sure we made it inside the house after getting off the bus. We didn’t have after-school programs unless you count sports or clubs. Then it was the collect call from “Practice is over and I need a ride home.”
HELLZAPOPPING!!! She’s ON FIRE!!!!!
This is the lengthiest concatenation of Mary Kay propaganda we’ve seen in a while.
As a word nerd, I just love the juxtaposition of “HELLZAPOPPING” and “concatenation” here, Lazy 😀
Words. I haz them!
Amazing all the haters have the same punctuation.
One word: Loosers!
Right?! I lost all respect for them just from the title…and the grammar/spelling/punctuation only got worse after that. I guess this is a “takes one to know one” kind of moment. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
If this website discourages ONE person from buying into Mary Kay, it’s all worth it. Somehow I think it’s a lot more than that, although there is no proof.
A lot of people do nice things with their kids. They just don’t splash it all over social media because their income isn’t dependent on using their alleged “dream life” to constantly recruit people into their downline. 😁
Tracy!?!? Are you ok?
I am wondering if she’s on vacation and enjoying some time off. She’s certainly earned it!
She sure has!!! PK is my favorite hobby and I am in withdrawal.
Most of my sub-Reddits are closed as well. I might have to finish my housework ahead of schedule!
I’m not sure what I’m supposed to do at work without the anti-MLM sub. Do they expect me to actually be productive or something?? Ugh…
I always worry that she was kidnapped at Target by a team of pink ninjas and she’s being held prisoner in someone’s spare bedroom being held prisoner in a cage made of ugly lipglosses while some diabolical mastermind plays endles MK training videos at her.
And instead of throwing stars and swords, the ninjas have eyeshadow compacts and cuticle trimmers.
And then SuzyQ and Raisinberry crash through the window on a motorcycle as explosions go off in the background and they liberate Tracy by squirting the ninjas in the eyes with Olay Regenerist, and then they all ride off into the sunset drinking mojitos as Freddy Mercury belts out “We Are the Champions” from atop the heap of vanquished pink ninjas.
I’m having a really sucky day and these illusions help sustain me 😀
You owe me a new Dr. Pepper.
Now ask me how much Dr. Pepper burns when it comes out your nose.
Woohoo! A noser gets double points!
(and I’d be happy to buy you a beverage of choice anytime 🙂 )
You really need to write a book. Or a movie. Or something.
Sorry for your really sucky day.